Women can be very complicated and hard to read, but you already know that. You try doing everything right, but somehow she’s still not satisfied. So here are you, wondering if it’s you or her who is doing something wrong. The truth is, sometimes men do things that make women feel insecure. For many women, it’s the little things that matter the most. And although women do enjoy big gestures, here at New Jersey Singles, we know it’s those little things that touch her heart. Women appreciate the little things, like holding her hand when walking in public or giving her a sweet goodnight kiss on the forehead.
What You Do to Make Her Feel Insecure
Do you think you’re doing everything you possibly can in your relationship? Are you still coming up short? Read on as New Jersey Singles reviews what men do that makes women feel insecure. If you’re guilty of any of these, it’s time for you to make some changes in your relationship.
1. When you check out other women.
One of the worst things you can do is check out other women in front of your girlfriend or wife. Believe us, it’s going to make your woman feel insecure. You need to give your partner your attention, not only out of respect, but because she deserves it. You don’t want to blatantly check out other women when you have your beautiful girlfriend right in front of your eyes.
If you are the type who can’t help it, you need to figure out a way if you want to save face in your relationship.
2. When you take a long time to reply.
Your woman is not asking you to reply in ten seconds, but you should reply in a decent amount of time, and this is especially true if you’re out with your guy friends. If you value your girlfriend, then you will not keep her waiting and wondering—plain and simple.
A simple text letting her know what you’re doing will suffice. Even if you’re having a good time with your friends, take a few seconds to reply to your girlfriend. However, if you’re busy at work or doing something that requires your full attention, then you don’t have to immediately reply.
3. When you hang out with a gal pal or coworker.
No matter how secure your girlfriend is, she is going to feel a little insecure when you hang out with a female friend. Yep, even if she is your best friend from growing up, it will still stir up a few insecurities. It’s just human nature. The next time you hang out with your female friend, be sure to bring your girlfriend along and always give your girlfriend more attention than this other woman. This will ensure your girlfriend that she is your #1.
4. When you talk about other women.
Unless you are discussing your mom, grandma, sister, or female boss, you shouldn’t be talking fondly about other women. Slip ups like this are bound to cause jealousy issues. We know there are plenty of good looking women out there, but talking about them will make your woman feel insecure. How would you like it if your girlfriend was talking about that tall, hunky, blonde guy at the gym all the time?
5. When you don’t introduce her right.
If were having lunch with your best friends or coworkers and unexpectedly bumped into your girlfriend, so how do you introduce her? You didn’t? Big mistake. This is one of those major mistakes that is bound to make your woman feel insecure. Why? Because it makes you look like you’re hiding her you’re your friends and others know you know. Here at New Jersey Singles, we want you to introduce your girlfriend to everyone you are out with, and remember to introduce her as your girlfriend. Don’t make your woman feel isolated or unwanted by not properly introducing her.
6. When you neglect her in a social setting.
You invited your girlfriend to a work holiday party, but what did you do? You spent the whole time laughing and chatting it up with your friends and coworkers and neglected her. She bought a new dress, got her nails done, and even had her makeup done. She was thrilled to have a good time with you, but you ignored her the whole night. Never bring her to a party and leave her fending for herself in the corner. It’s rude and disrespectful and you should know better by now.
7. When you don’t give her a compliment.
Your girlfriend told you she went to the salon today and got a new haircut and color. Did you compliment her on it? She told you she lost 9 pounds over the last month, but you didn’t pay her any mind. She is obviously making efforts to look good and feel good, but when it seems like you don’t care, it’s going to hurt her feelings and her self-esteem too. We want you to pay more attention to your woman and notice the little things about her. After all, they mean the most. You don’t have to give her a compliment every day, but you should let her know when you notice something different.
8. When your ex calls you.
Okay, let’s say you’re still good friends with your ex. But you must know one thing, your girlfriend is sure to be irritated when your ex calls, especially if it’s often. The two of you had something in the past, which is sure to make your girlfriend feel insecure. Keep in mind that the only woman who can tolerate your friendship with your ex is a woman who doesn’t care.
Don’t point the finger at your woman for being insecure if you’re the one causing it. If you want to save your relationship, you need to figure out ways to ensure you never make your girlfriend feel insecure. If you notice you’re guilty of any of these behaviors we reviewed above, we encourage you to make a New Year’s resolution never to do it again. Make 2016 the year you strengthen your relationship and deepen your bond.
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