Whether you are just coming back to the dating world after getting over a long term relationship or you’ve just reached the point in life you’re ready to settle down and a serious relationship, our upscale New Jersey matchmakers have some dating tips for men over 40 & single in NJ. This never before released dating guide will get you up to speed with the latest in the over 40 dating world.
You have it all… Yes, we know you have it all. But you’re missing one thing: a fabulous woman by your side.
Sure, you just made partner of a very elite law firm in town, or you just became the CEO of a successful company, but tell us, what is all that if you don’t have an amazing partner to share those things with? Who will accompany you to dinners? Who will fly to Rome with you? And who will welcome you home with a delicious home cooked meal after a long and strenuous day at the office?
What about skiing in the mountains or dancing the night away, out on the town? Here at New Jersey Singles, we know one thing: a loving partner is something money can’t buy. But luckily for you, a highly successful man who’s serious about finding love, our upscale matchmaking experts are here to help. We are the leading resource for busy professional singles to find the beautiful, relationship-minded woman they deserve. But before we get to that, we’re going to get you all prepped for dating over 40.
If you’re ready to find a fabulous woman, read below as our upscale New Jersey matchmakers release the best dating tips for single men over 40.
1. Make Time for Dating
We know you have a busy schedule—and we’re 100% sure of that. And even though you’re pursuing a serious relationship, we’re pretty sure your schedule is not going to change because of that. With that being said, you’re in need of love, which means making a commitment to finding it.
After all, you don’t get so high on your career ladder or reach the top by sitting around on your sofa all day long. We know your schedule is as busy as it gets, but if you want to find love this year, you need to make time for love.
You might have to reschedule a meeting or two or cancel that golf outing with your friends so you can go on dates with beautiful women. On the other hand, if you’re interested in meeting compatible women through our services, we can arrange dates based on your schedule and only make introductions whenever your time allows. This is a win-win situation that has proven to work for many busy professionals, like yourself.
2. Be Patient
This one is probably one of the most difficult tips for single men over 40 to follow. After all, we know you’re used to the best, and you’re used to having it at the snap of your fingers, right?
However, love doesn’t work that way. It will take a few dates before you find your ideal partner. But more importantly, you should never take rejection to the heart.
There might be a woman or two who don’t want to see you again; sometimes things just don’t work out, but that’s just the way things go in life and in dating. Walk away with your head high and move onto the next one. Understand that a few no’s from different women will eventually lead to you to the ‘yes’ from the woman you want.
It’s one thing to make investments in a company and quite another to make investments in yourself. So look at dating as an investment, one that requires your time, patience, and attention.
3. Do Not Judge Too Quickly
We know you’ve reached a high level of success because you have high standards. After all, you are a career-driven man who is used to the finest things in life.
Fancy cars, upscale restaurants, the latest gadgets, the best shoes, top of the line suits… You have the best of it all.
However, that natural inclination of only wanting perfection will not pay off for dating. Finding a good match is about finding a woman who is compatible with you, not finding one that looks better than every woman in New Jersey. Finding one that possesses both can be very difficult to find. We encourage you to give women a chance and go on a date with them before brushing anyone off right away.
Of course you’re bound to make judgements, and there is nothing you can do about that, but you’re bound to make judgements based on outside appearances—what color hair she has, if she’s wearing expensive designer clothes, where she works, what her income is, and so on. But we don’t want you to discount someone based on those looks or material things; after all, they’re not what makes a happy and successful relationship.
Our upscale New Jersey matchmakers want you to focus on important things, such as common interests, core values, and relationship goals. Chances are that as a successful single you know how to connect with people, so try to do that with her just like you would in an important boardroom meeting.
Put your great communication skills to work and listen to everything she has to say. Focus on common things and put your pre-judgements to the side.
4. The Pros & Cons of Paying
No woman likes to feel like they’re the charity date, and if you are dating a woman who earns less than you, you don’t want to wave your wealth in her face. Also, beware that many women in the dating world will date you based on how much money you earn. You can avoid women like this by working with a professional matchmaker, like ours here at New Jersey Singles. We don’t allow gold diggers in our database, only women of the same ilk as you—quality women who are also searching for a loving partner.
5. Romantic Trips
Do you fly out of the country often? Do you wish to go on a romantic vacation? Wish no more, our upscale New Jersey matchmakers are here to tell you that with our help, you can meet the woman of your dreams and finally go on that romantic vacation with the beautiful woman you’ve always dreamed of having by your side.
Lastly, men, don’t forget to enjoy dating and remember to look for compatibility rather than perfection with outside appearances. And more importantly, if you need help, let our New Jersey matchmakers know and we’ll be glad to make your dating life easier.
If you’re single & over 40 in NJ, contact our expert matchmakers at 1 (888) 417-0020 to set up a complimentary, and always confidential, matchmaking consultation today!