Reading a man’s mind is not easy to do. Men are very complicated, which makes the process of dating frustrating and difficult. Whether you’re a single woman searching for love or you’re already in a relationship, our expert matchmakers have some helpful tips for you.
Read on and find out what men are really looking for in a girlfriend as New Jersey Singles reviews the top qualities men hunt for in a long term relationship.
He might tell you you’re perfect the way you are, or say he’s happy with the restaurant you’ve chosen, but what’s he thinking deep down inside?
Is he really happy or are there a few things he wishes he could change? Truth be told, there are probably a few traits and characteristics he wishes he could add to your almost perfect package. Today, New Jersey Singles reviews the top qualities men are looking for in a woman.
It’s no secret that your man loves you for who you are and isn’t asking you to change, but if you could be better, wouldn’t you want to be? If you could be more desirable in his eyes, wouldn’t you want to?
Get ready as New Jersey Singles reviews the qualities men crave in a long term partner. Show him these things and he’ll fall in love with you more and more.
And if you already have these traits, well, that is great for you. And if you don’t, it’s never too late to step up your game.
1. Flirty Gestures
All men love it when a woman flirts with them. It doesn’t matter if you’ve been together a few weeks or several years, never let your flirty gestures fall to the wayside. This is an instant way to pique his interests once again.
2. Nice Appearances
Of course your man is going to love you regardless of what you look like, even when you’re wearing your old gym clothes. But remember that men are visual creatures, and unlike you, they really do melt for a woman’s outer appearance. You don’t have to look spectacular every day, but try to look your best once in a while—keep the spark alive.
3. A Good Attitude
No man wants to get home after a long day in the office and hear his girlfriend or wife complaining or nagging him the second he opens the door. He doesn’t want to hear that you can’t fit into your jeans and he certainly doesn’t want to hear about the drama with Ned and Nancy.
He doesn’t want to hear about your insecurities, drama with friends, or negative talk all the time. Try to leave the negative talk out of conversation with your man and discuss it with your girlfriends instead.
4. Show Him You’re Vulnerable
You already know every man loves being the hero, the knight in shining armor. And although you never want to be dependent on him, let him come to your rescue or help you solve a problem once in a while. After all, it’s what they’re hardwired for.
5. Maintain Good Eye Contact
Whether you’re trying to get a man’s attention or just want to rekindle things in your seasoned relationship, use eye contact to your advantage. It will show your interest, stroke his ego a bit, and make him feel wanted and desired.
6. Bring the Flirting Back
This one is important whether you’re single or in a relationship. If he’s getting flirty with you, get a little playful and flirt back. If he extends a sincere compliment, never shoot it down. Accept it gracefully and go ahead and give one back. After all, nothing kills the sexual vibe faster than a woman who doesn’t know how to take a compliment.
7. Have a Sexy & Seductive Voice
Your man will love to hear your soft and feminine tone or a sexy and seductive voice. And this isn’t just about your tone but also about your word choice. Nothing is more of a turn off than a woman who has the mouth of a sailor. If every word that comes out of your mouth is dirty or inappropriate, then you need to change up your vocabulary and show him you’re a classy lady. Just because you’ve known your man for a long time now doesn’t mean you need to become one of the guys.
8. Show Him Skin
Now, there is a thin line for this one, ladies. Every guy likes to see a little skin, but never so much you look easy or trashy. You can be elegant and sexy without revealing too much.
9. Give Him a Sense of Adventure
Yes, we know that not all women are natural born athletes and some don’t have an adventurous bone in their body, but that doesn’t mean you can’t try to step out of your comfort zone once in a while. If your man invites you to go hiking or biking, don’t immediately shut him down. Your perfectly manicured nails can be redone on Monday, so don’t let that stop you. Be spontaneous and adventurous and create memories that will last a lifetime.
10. Trusting Him & Not Getting Jealous
Just like you hate being controlled by your man, he hates when you’re controlling too. Asking for his Facebook password or stalking his emails is a huge turn off. Unless your man has given you reason not to trust him, you should always give him the benefit of the doubt. Not trusting him shows your lack of confidence in yourself—not attractive to any guy.
11. Get Along with His Friends
It’s simple ladies. If you want to win a man’s heart, you need to get along with his friends. Winning his friends over might not seem like a big deal to you, but it’s a huge deal for him. Always be friendly and polite with his friends; after all, there’s nothing a man fears more than losing his friends to a girlfriend.
12. A Laidback & Go with the Flow Attitude
Men hate uptight women, the ones who will not stray from their routines. If you are not able to go with the flow, then how can you have fun? It’s okay to do something without planning it, it doesn’t hurt to try a new restaurant, nor does it hurt to break the routine. Show him you can let your hair down and have fun.
13. Be Independent
As much as men like being the hero, they also like a woman to be independent and capable of doing things on her own. Just because you know your man is home doesn’t mean you can’t go out and have a drink with your girlfriends, nor does it mean you have to skip yoga and rush home from work. Show him you have your own interests, hobbies, friends, and life. There’s nothing sexier than a woman who is independent.
Now that you know the top 13 qualities men crave in a woman, how many do you have? If you can think of any more, share them with us on our Facebook page.