Whether you’re one of our upscale clients here at New Jersey Singles Dating Service or just looking for dating tips to have an amazing first date, our expert matchmakers and dating coaches have you covered.
New Jersey Singles Dating Service is an upscale matchmaking agency that matches successful men and women with mature and like-minded singles to help create the ultimate dating experience. But the first date itself relies on your own wit and charisma. The goal is to entice your date and hopefully land a second one. To be successful, you must be develop an open line of communication, understanding, and provide an enjoyable time. This revolves around having good manners and utilizing everything you’ve learned up until today. Establishing a good rapport, asking how they’re doing, and saying “please” and “thank you” will take you a long way in creating a good first impression. While basic etiquette is a must, our New Jersey Singles upscale matchmakers know there are other things you must keep in mind if you want to make your first date unforgettable.
There is always a first time for everything in life, and the same rule applies to a first date. A first date is a special event, and there is nothing more satisfying than finding a special person, having a fantastic date, and hopefully developing a serious relationship. Not only will your date give you memories to look back on, but it could also give you the opportunity to land a relationship that will last a lifetime. So let’s not waste another second, let us teach you how to make your first date an unforgettable experience.
Bring Your A-Game Along
Obviously you want to be on your best behavior, but to truly rock your first date, you need to bring you’re A-game! Pick your outfit a day in advance, get plenty of rest the night before, and make sure you know exactly where you’re going, how to get there, and where you’re going to park. We also encourage you to leave yourself a little leeway to ensure you make it there on time. Let’s face it, we all know how hectic NJ traffic can be. The last thing you want to do is get caught up in traffic and ruin your first impression—and possibly all your chances.
For those who have busy calendars, don’t try to squeeze in a last minute meeting, don’t get a drink with your boys right before the date, and don’t do an extra ten minutes on the treadmill if it’s going to set you back in time. If you want to set yourself up for success, assume your date will go well, be pleasant and kind, and spend a reasonable amount of time getting to know each other.
Bring a Flower with You
This is something our New Jersey Singles upscale matchmakers recommend for the guys. Bringing a dozen roses to your first date might make you look a little clingy or desperate, and that’s not the look you want to provide. Bringing a single flower will show your date that you’re a considerate gentleman with a romantic side. There are many flowers you can choose from, so don’t limit yourself to a rose. See if your florist can recommend one for the season or to convey the message you want to give.
Go Somewhere New
Okay, going to Starbucks might be your favorite thing you do every day on your lunch with coworkers, but if you want to make your first date an unforgettable one, you’re going to have to try something different? It’s likely that she has been to every Starbucks in town, so why not take her somewhere more romantic?
Luckily for you, New Jersey is filled with many romantic destinations—and some of the cutest and coziest coffee and pastry shops. Simply Google some romantic spots in your zip code and you’re bound to find many different date ideas. If you want to make your first date unforgettable, we encourage you to try different date ideas depending on what she’s into. If you’re both into fun activities, you can consider things like bowling, miniature golfing, or something else you know she’s into you. If you’re more romantic, how about visiting a winery or going to a winetasting event?
If you’re meeting through our services here at New Jersey Singles, we’ll be able to help you with date ideas that will be suitable for you and your matches.
Pick the Right Venue
Your date will not be unforgettable unless you choose the right venue. You must pick a venue so you can both get to know each other, but it should also be fun and memorable. Should you take her to the movies? No way, you can’t talk and get to know each other in a dark, quiet movie theater. Select a venue that is fun and unusual, something that stimulates conversation, something that will set you ahead of the competition and provide a memorable experience for her.
Talk Is Important
Our experienced New Jersey Singles upscale matchmakers make compatible matches on the daily. We don’t rely on computer algorithms to make our matches; we rely on our expert matchmaking skills, intuition, and that added human touch to make the best matches for our clients. These factors alone mean you and the person you’ll be going out with will have many things in common. Most likely the same religion, politics, and lifestyles, so conversation will flow easily. There are many things you can talk about on a first date, but the key is to keep things light and stay clear of exes and other controversial topics.
Dress to Impress
Appearances undoubtedly contribute to the success of dating. Never wear something that is inappropriate for a first date. Instead, show up looking elegant and win points in your favor. She has most likely put a lot of time into her appearance and you need to do the same. Don’t forget to wear an amazing cologne, clean shoes, and always style your hair. And remember to plan your outfit according to the venue. Trust us, the efforts you put forth will surely result in a positive outcome.
Don’t Be Nervous
First dates cause a lot of stress, even for the most successful singles. But you never want to allow your nerves cause you to consume too many alcoholic beverages. Can you have a drink? Yes, but try to limit yourself to one or two. You want to make your date unforgettable by showing her a fabulous time, not by getting inebriated and embarrassing her.
The simple fact that you’re out on a date with someone new indicates that you still have not found that special someone. If you’re not having luck in dating, then you’re not taking the right approach. If you are not having luck with what you’re doing and would like to get expert matchmaking help, let our New Jersey upscale matchmakers know today so we can create a dating plan tailored specifically for you. We can introduce you to gorgeous women in New Jersey, relationship-minded women who are eager to find real love.
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