Find Love over the Holidays with New Jersey Singles Dating Service
Are you dreading spending the holidays alone? Are you ready to pick yourself up and do something about it? If so, our professional matchmakers have the perfect holiday dating advice for you!
When the calendar turns to December you, along with many other singles, might begin to think about the holidays ahead, and that means envisioning the holidays all by themselves. Family dinners with siblings and cousins, and everyone else, showing up with their significant others. Then, your company holiday party, your best friend’s Christmas party, and that missing kiss under the mistletoe all begin to flood your head.
Tis the season alright. Tis the season for singles to receive many reminders that they are, in fact, single. The good news for you is that there is still time. Over the next couple of weeks there are many things you can do to hopefully increase your chances of snagging a date for the holidays.
1. Give Back to the Community
No matter what area you live, there are bound to be charitable organizations you can volunteer yourself. In addition to daily and weekly events, organizations are always in need of manpower. Many charities also host networking and fundraising events that bring all types of volunteers together to help. Get out and give back to your community and maybe you‘ll meet someone special in the process. Volunteering will surely put you in a cheerful holiday mood.
2. Cheer for Your Home Team
This is a great time of year to meet someone at a local sporting event. From college and pro football, hockey, and basketball, attending a game can be a great way for you to meet other singles. Try going early with a friend and grab a drink at a nearby bar where you are bound to socialize with other local fans. While at the game, find an excuse to talk to someone while waiting in line for your beer or hotdog or give a high five to the good looking single next to you when your team scores. Some local teams even sponsor singles nights where you can go and mingle while watching your favorite team.
3. Do the Things You Like
Whether it’s going to the gym, ice-skating, or shopping, the holiday season is a great time to do all the things you enjoy doing. Maybe you’re into photography or you enjoy running in the park, don’t neglect doing those things just because you would rather mope about spending the holidays solo. Pick yourself up, get off your couch, and get out and about. You never know who is also out doing those activities. Bonus: They’re into the same things as you, and that’s always a great way to break the ice.
4. Learn Something New
Take a class, any type of class. From cooking classes, salsa dancing, or even pottery, classes are a great way to meet like-minded people locally. Dancing classes are a great way to meet other local singles, and it’s a great way to be matched with someone of the opposite sex. You can find many classes to choose from at your local church, community college, or even your fitness center. You can also check the newspaper as they are always advertising fun local classes and events. Even if you walk out of the class without a date, you have at least broadened your horizons, which will help you sharpen your social skills and give you interesting things to talk about.
5. Take Your Dog to the Park
Dog parks are a great way to meet local singles. And guess what? Your dog is also a great icebreaker! You both already have the love for canines in common, and dog parks always provide something humorous to talk about. Don’t have a dog? Don’t worry, you can visit your local animal shelter and offer to walk the dogs there.
6. Read a Book
Stop reading books from candlelight at home and start checking out local bookstores. Unlike the bar scene, that attractive single you have spotted isn’t likely to be intoxicated and you already know you share something in common. Start the conversation by asking them for a book recommendation. Plus, meeting someone at a bookstore means they’re well-rounded, which is a plus for you.
7. Get off Your Phone
Get off your phone. How many eligible singles do you pass each day at the grocery store, the gift wrapping department, or where you stop to get coffee every morning? You don’t even notice because you are on social media or checking your email everywhere you go. Be aware of your surroundings and ask for help or create small talk when you notice an attractive single. You never know who you might meet if you would simply put that phone down.
8. Let Our Professionals Do the Hard Work
Don’t have time to spend walking your dog in the park? No time to take up a new activity or class? If you’re pressed for time or too shy to approach and meeting local singles on your own, don’t worry. Let our expert matchmakers here at New Jersey Singles do the hard work for you.
We are a professional matchmaking agency designed for busy professionals just like yourself. Our matchmakers here at New Jersey Singles take time to get to know you and identify your dating needs so we can satisfy them. If you’re ready to meet someone special this holiday, let our matchmakers do the work for you. It’s as simple as calling us and setting up a free matchmaking consultation.
It doesn’t matter how busy you think you are or how little luck you think you’ll have meeting like-minded singles this time of year, our personal matchmakers can help. We do all the hard work of searching and screening for you, so all you have to do is show up and enjoy each date. What are you waiting for? Give us a call today!